Mindfulness & The Getting Ready Experience

We want to share all of the juicy tips and resources we've gathered over the years to make your getting ready experience as peaceful and enjoyable as it possibly can be.

11/21/20232 min read

Your wedding day should be a celebration of love! A day filled with joy, laughter, and cherished moments. As the excitement builds, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of preparations and forget to savor the journey. In this guide, we explore the art of mindful wedding day preparation, offering insights and tips to help you stay grounded and make the most of every moment.


Plan More Time For Getting Ready Than You Need To

In the midst of the hustle and bustle, it's crucial to allocate more time than you think you'll need for each task. From hair and makeup, to getting dressed, giving yourself a buffer ensures you can navigate unexpected hiccups without feeling rushed. This extra time also allows for spontaneous moments and a chance to breathe.


Do Less - No Seriously DO LESS

Strive for simplicity on your wedding morning. The desire for perfection can sometimes lead to overwhelming to-do lists. Prioritize what truly matters and consider cutting out non-essential tasks. By doing less, you create space for enjoyment and a stress-free atmosphere.


Hire A Wedding Team Who Specializes in Efficiency

At The Undone Updo, we know how much it matters to keep your getting ready timeline on track. That’s why we make it our mission to remove the stress from your wedding morning by running the show for you.

We've also packaged up all of our expertise to be able to offer your wedding party a series of emailed guides in the months leading up to your wedding. We give them all of our tips and tricks on choosing the perfect look for their hair type, as well as their personal style! We also teach them how to prep their hair to be styled on wedding day, so their style looks as good as possible.

Give Yourself Space to Get Grounded

Amidst the chaos, SET ASIDE moments to pause and ground yourself. If you have a timeline, plan some time to reflect and slow down into your day. Take a few minutes alone to breathe deeply, connect with your emotions, and appreciate the significance of the day. This mindfulness practice can help you stay present and truly experience the magic of your wedding.


Have All Attendants Present During Hair and Makeup

Surround yourself with your closest friends and family during the preparation process. Having your attendants present creates a supportive and positive atmosphere, fostering a sense of camaraderie that will carry through the entire day. This will also make your wedding timeline go much more smoothly! (Here is where you can read more about a huge discovery we had on this topic in 2023)


Review Notes from Hair and Makeup Trials

The wedding morning can be overwhelming, and it's easy to forget the details. Take a moment to review any notes from your hair and makeup trials. This ensures that you can communicate any last-minute adjustments or preferences to your stylists, helping you achieve the look you envisioned.


Your wedding day is such a mosaic of emotions, experiences, and shared moments. By approaching the preparations with mindfulness, you not only enhance your own well-being but also set the stage for a day filled with joy, connection, and presence. And we will be here to help you to relax every step of the way.